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If you feel in danger from someone please do not feel obligated to engage. You can call 911 to get help. | If you feel in danger from someone please do not feel obligated to engage. You can call 911 to get help. | ||
== | == Help! How do I ask someone to stop their behavior? == | ||
You can ask them to stop. | |||
== Some suggested scripts for talking to people == | |||
"Please stop this behavior." | * "You need to leave now." | ||
* "This is not ok here." | |||
* "Please stop this behavior." | |||
* "Don't do that, it's not ok here." <a statement of disagreement or denial> "No, in this context it is not productive, please do not do that. Let's move on." "We can ask for help with this later, please let's move on." | |||
* "Don't do that. When you did that it was uncomfortable. Sometimes people don't realize it is uncomfortable, no worries, let's move on." "We can ask for help with this later, please let's move on." | |||
If you feel uncomfortable continuing a conversation about it, you can direct them to the [[User:Skm/asked to leave]] wiki page. | If you feel uncomfortable continuing a conversation about it, you can direct them to the [[User:Skm/asked to leave]] wiki page. | ||
== Help! I asked someone to | == Help! I asked someone to stop! == | ||
Please let us know by contacting [[The Board]] and cc [mailto:skay@pumpingstationone.org Sheila] or Sheila's [https://lists.pumpingstationone.org/listinfo/private-help private-help] mailing list that will only be shared with board members. Do '''not''' email info@pumpingstationone.org since it is not private. If you prefer, you can ask a friend to contact us on your behalf. You are not obligated. It is good for us to know what is going on, but if you aren't able to talk to us about it then don't. You should not have to defend yourself and it sucks that you are in this position. | Please let us know by contacting [[The Board]] and cc [mailto:skay@pumpingstationone.org Sheila] or Sheila's [https://lists.pumpingstationone.org/listinfo/private-help private-help] mailing list that will only be shared with board members. Do '''not''' email info@pumpingstationone.org since it is not private. If you prefer, you can ask a friend to contact us on your behalf. You are not obligated. It is good for us to know what is going on, but if you aren't able to talk to us about it then don't. You should not have to defend yourself and it sucks that you are in this position. | ||
